Saturday, October 11, 2008

Controlling Your Mind Power - Stop Allowing Adversity to Bully You

Each one of us at some point in our lives is faced with adversity. It might be an adversity that is so monumental and horrific as to defy description. It has been my experience that so-called small adversities never seem to come knocking. All of them, at least for a time, seem so large as to look insurmountable. Nearly all of them in some way have a financial basis.

For most people, the response is automatic and predictable. As soon as an adversity appears the ever lurking fear, in which Robert Kiyosaki says is deeply ingrained into the non-rich 95% of the population, seizes the opportunity, takes control, and projects the adversity as a larger than life presence. Other emotions that are closely associated with fear also show up. Thinking becomes cloudy. The bodily fight or flight systems activate to some degree. Physical discomforts are also a possibility.

Have you ever asked yourself why people are so greatly effected by what are mostly irrational fears? I certainly did not ask myself that question for many, many years. I just thought it was the natural thing to do. Even more years passed before I received my answer. It came to me one day while I was doing some clean up on my car with the trunk of the car open. My four year old grandson was serving as my help mate. In the trunk was a pair of binoculars that my help mate wanted to explore. As he looked through them, he said what he was seeing was fuzzy. He asked me to help him see clearly. I chose a target and adjusted the zoom until the target was clearly in view.

It was then that my answer flashed into my mind. Focus. While I was focused on my target through those binoculars, the target was all that I could really see, and the target is what occupied my conscious mind. I did not consciously see anything else but the target because anything that was fuzzy or only slightly perceptible, I disregarded. Focus is the key that led to my understanding of why adversities loom so large.

Allegorically, the self image uses irrational fear as its binoculars when adversity appears. As you focus on the adversity through fear, all other thoughts and ideas become fuzzy and are pushed into the background. Only the adversity is crystal clear, looming larger than life. The longer you focus on it, the larger it seems. Various scenarios, driven by the fear, probably flash across your mind, each of which has a seemingly dreadful outcome.

Here is a question for you. Since none of these fear-driven destinations is what you desire, why would you continue to focus on any of them? What prevents you from changing your focus? In truth, nothing can prevent you from re-directing your focus if you decide to do so. By controlling the power of the mind, you have the power available to focus on any thought, idea, or mental image you want!

Stop focusing on the adversity. Instead, focus on what you desire. By presenting to your mind an end result that you desire and by choosing to use PMA (a positive mental attitude) as allegorical binoculars, your desire takes center stage in your mind. The longer you focus on it, the larger it grows. You will be amazed how quickly the fear and its related thoughts fade farther and farther into the background.

This I know for sure. You can claim or re-claim control of your own mind power. You are the most miraculous of all living beings on earth. You are the owner of a mind that is so stupendous, that as you truly begin controlling your mind power and consciously using it, there is no dream that you can dream that you cannot achieve.

Harold L Lowe retired at age 62 when his six-figure income position was eliminated. He now wishes to share some of what he has learned since then and some of his experiences as well through articles. He is now studying The New Think And Grow Rich with the author, Ted Ciuba, a founding member of the World Internet Summit. To Claim A FREE Copy Of The Book That Inspired The Movie/DVD/Book, The Secret, Go To: http://www.MasteringYourMindPower.com
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